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Friday, August 22, 2025

Is That ... Fall?

TGIF! After rain earlier in the week followed by humidity, we finally have had some cooler weather and a hint of fall in the air. I don't think we're done with the heat altogether, but look at the forecast for next week!

Still little rain (those scattered showers on Sunday may be out of the forecast by then or miss us entirely), but look at those highs! I think I'll even need an extra layer in the morning, and friends, I am ready for it!

Our tomato plants have not gotten the memo that summer is soon coming to an end, however, and I keep discovering surprise tomatoes (because the big plant has taken over so much that they're hiding behind other plants). Here's the current harvest still to be eaten:

We sliced up a big one to have on turkey burgers on Wednesday night, and I've had some in salads, but there are still plenty to be eaten!

This weekend is the last one before Molly goes back to school, so we actually have some plans. The three of us are going out to dinner tonight at one of our favorite local places to kick off the school year. She just got asked to work another shift on Saturday and then is going to a friend's sleepover party on Saturday night, so the Mister and I are going out for a date night. And then Sunday he leaves for his annual work trip to Las Vegas that means he misses the first day of school (though fortunately at this age, Molly doesn't mind so much). Of course there will be the usual walks (alone and with Ruthie) and naps and such. But perhaps the next couple of days will be less sweaty.

Have a good one, friends, and see you back here on Monday!

Wednesday, August 20, 2025

Unraveled, Week 34/2025

Greetings, friends, and happy Wednesday! It's been a long start to the week (I woke up yesterday and my first thought was, "Is it really only Tuesday?"), but today is my favorite day of the blogging week, when I get to join in with Kat and the Unravelers.

Today I'm kicking things off with a finished object (finished, but not yet blocked, so please excuse that).


I completed the knitting on this hat on Monday afternoon during what I've taken to calling "snoozy time" and then wove in the end that evening. The yarn is from Supernova Dyeworks and came from my SSK goodie bag; I love the colors but thought they'd be a bit too much in socks. In the larger circumference of a hat, however, I got some nice stripes. This will be added to the charity pile.

I have also made some real progress on my Kudzu tank, completing the second and final chart:


The second chart is worked under the arms, after you've joined the front and back, and it continues the leaf lace motif in a really pretty way:


Now it's just stockinette through the rest of the body, with a few increases to give a little shaping. I've used up my first skein of yarn and will be interested to see how far I get with the second.

I've had another blockbuster week of reading -- five books finished! This is in large part due to audiobooks (I get a lot of listening done between exercising and walking the dog) as well as the fact that I read some shorter books this past week.

My brother loaned me his copy of Dog Is Love: Why and How Your Dog Loves You shortly after we adopted Ruthie, and I'm a little ashamed to say that I've only just gotten around to it. This is a book I would have enjoyed even before having my own dog simply because of my interest in psychology (it's what I got my bachelor's degree in). The author, an academic who studies canine behavior, set out to uncover why it is that humans and dog have long been able to form strong bonds and loving relationships. While he gets into evolution and genetics and even Pavlov, the book is easy to read and understand, and he certainly makes a strong case for dog ownership. It also made me regret not taking the course on animal behavior in college! I enjoyed this one a lot -- 4 stars.


Next was an audiobook that I listened to over the course of two days and very nearly DNF'd. Severance is a pandemic book, but it was published back in 2018 and was eerily familiar. I'd had it on my TBR for a while because I'd heard about it on at least one bookish podcast I listen to, and I had thought I'd heard that the virus in the book caused people to become overly religious rather than sick. Either I was confusing it with another book or the podcaster hadn't read it, because that is not the case at all -- there's some near zombie stuff happening in this book. The crux of it is that there's a virus out of China that causes people to become "fevered," and the main character finds herself in a New York City that is quickly becoming a ghost city, yet she continues to go to her office and work despite the fact that her work has become impossible and pointless. The Goodreads description of this book calls it a "hilarious deadpan satire," but I just found it depressing. Some of the descriptions of the people afflicted by the virus started to make me feel a little ill myself, and that was the point at which I nearly stopped listening, but because I was out on a workout without anything else to listen to at the time, I kept going, and it got a little better. The only parts I actually enjoyed were the flashbacks to the main character's family when they first immigrated to the United States and their determination to make a new life in a new country. I wouldn't recommend this one. 2 stars.

I needed something lighter and fluffier after that, so I scrolled way down in my Kindle shelves and found Shrines of Gaiety, which I'd bought a couple of years ago but never gotten around to reading. I know a number of you read this when it first came out and thought it was okay, and that was my experience as well (it was a 3-star read for me). This book is not on the same level as Life After Life, but it's fun and didn't require a lot of thought or attention on my part. I was a bit frustrated that several storylines were left just hanging at the end -- some, it seemed, deliberately. I am okay with ambiguity in certain situations, but this felt a bit like laziness to me. If you're writing fiction, can't just just make up an explanation? In any case, it was a good palate cleanser.


I so enjoyed Adam Higginbotham's Challenger that for my next audiobook, I decided to read another of his works Midnight in Chernobyl. As with his book on the Challenger disaster, Higginbotham is thorough and impartial in relaying the facts, looking at what happened from all angles and, at times, from minute to minute. I was familiar with some of the names and how the disaster played out from having watched the HBO miniseries several years back, so I can't say I really learned anything new. If you've seen that miniseries, you probably don't need to read the book, but if not, I would recommend it if you'd like to learn more about what happened. It's very well done (though I have some grumbles about the audiobook narrator). I gave it 4 stars.

Finally, a memoir, The Tell. It's an Oprah pick, but that is not why I read it (though it likely explained the long wait list at the library). The author was struck by her daughter's comment that she felt she really didn't know her to examine why that would be. She cautiously entered a session of therapy using MDMA, only to discover a long-suppressed memory of being sexually assaulted by a teacher when she was in middle school. Having released this memory, and realized why she reacted the way she did to certain stimuli, she then embarked on a long process of both healing from the abuse and seeking some form of justice for what was done to her. This is a book that will be very hard for some people to read, for obvious reasons. I found it fascinating that our own brains will hide a memory from us yet the effects of what is hidden can be seen and felt in the body. I gave it 4 stars.

What are you making and reading this week?





Monday, August 18, 2025

Another Sweaty Weekend

It was another weekend -- another hot weekend -- here, though this weekend we actually had a bit of rain!  I'd been hoping for a good thunderstorm yesterday afternoon, which did not materialize, but we did get a couple of good soaking rains. Still a drop in the bucket as far as our deficit is concerned, but I'll take it!

We ended up going out to dinner with my parents on Friday night to a new-to-us place that we all agreed was a place we'd go back to. Saturday Molly worked, the Mister rode his bike, and I managed to go for a 6+-mile walk (in addition to my regular walks with Ruthie). I made a chocolate zucchini cake (from this cookbook) using the two zucchinis I managed to harvest from my plants before the heat killed them. Ruthie took naps -- and apparently had some interesting dreams:

I finished an ebook and an audiobook and pondered which of these variegated skeins to use with the light green semisolid for a new shawl (Ravelry link):

I was up both mornings a little earlier than I'd like, but I slept well and managed a brief nap both days, so I can't complain. The only cooking I had to do all weekend was make a salad to go with pizza on Saturday night and prep some potatoes and asparagus for the oven last night. As weekends go, it was a pretty good one! And now it's back to the usual. It's Molly's last week of summer break, and in addition to working two shifts this week, she's got to finish her summer reading assignment, which happens to be what might be my favorite book, Pride and Prejudice. It looks like it's going to be a little cooler this week, so maybe it'll be less sweaty than it has been. There are already leaves drying up and falling in the neighborhood, so fall is on the way!

Friday, August 15, 2025

Three Random Things

It's Friday, thank goodness, and because I don't have much of an update to share in the way of knitting (everything looks pretty much the same as it did on Wednesday), I thought I'd share three random things -- good things! -- to end the week.

1. We got rain!
After getting no measurable precipitation for nearly the first half of August for the first time since the 1800s, we finally got a couple of good soakings on Wednesday. I woke to a thunderstorm in the morning, and there was another as I was going to bed. We're still at quite a deficit, but it was nice to see the flowers perking up a little.

2. I met some new neighbors.
Okay, this might be stretching it a bit, but yesterday as I was walking in to the office, I heard a noise up a driveway, looked to my left, and saw this mama and her babies:

The photo isn't the best because I was trying to take it without scaring them, but the two fawns still had lots of spots and were so cute! It's a good thing Ruthie wasn't with me because I don't know what she'd make of deer; she already gets freaked out by rabbits, squirrels, and birds, to say nothing of dogs she doesn't know.

3. Girl dinner
You may have heard of this trend. "Girl dinner" is apparently the name for having what amounts to snacks for dinner, but in our house, it's what Molly and I eat when the Mister is out of town or at a work dinner and we don't feel like making an organized meal. It's what we did last night, when I made homemade pita bread (using this recipe) and we had some dips to go with it. I make this pita a lot, and while it takes a bit of time, it's always excellent. Here, have a piece!

I will note that if you'd like to try to make it, I find it works just fine with regular all-purpose flour. The dough is also very sticky, so you'll want to have extra flour on hand. And if you can't eat it all at once, it'll keep in the fridge and reheat in the microwave very nicely the next day.

We have what I hope will be another quiet weekend ahead. Molly is working tomorrow and then having a friend sleep over ahead of her last week of summer vacation. I'm looking forward to sneaking in a nap or two with Ruthie, who reminds you to make sure you're getting enough rest, too!

Have a great weekend, friends, and see you back here on Monday!

Wednesday, August 13, 2025

Unraveled, Week 33/2025

It's another hot Wednesday here, and the humidity has been turned back up -- but we are supposed to get rain today! Good thing, too, because we've apparently had the driest start to August since sometime in the 1800s. I am longing for fall weather, but it looks like that's not coming for a while yet, so I'll be hiding in the air conditioning as much as I can until then.

Time to join in with Kat and the Unravelers! The arrival of a big work project last week meant a slowdown in my daytime knitting, but the current hat on the needles is now about half a Ruthie long:

Apologies for showing you so much leg!

I haven't weighed the skein of yarn, but it has gotten noticeably smaller, so I'd estimate I'm about halfway done. There's no deadline for this, but I expect it won't be on the needles for too much longer because it's so easy to work on while doing other things.

I've also made some progress on my Kudzu, despite putting it down for a day or so to check with the designer on some numbers. I've just joined the front and the back to work in the round, so things are likely to go faster now.


I'd really like to get this done by the end of the month, if possible. I have a lace/texture chart to work through under both arms, but after that it's all stockinette, and I know that will go quickly. Partly I want to get it done to be able to wear it while it's still summer (even though at the moment it feels like summer is going to last forever), but partly the desire to finish it is so I can get started on something for colder weather.

In spite of being busy at work, I somehow managed to finish four books in the past week -- largely thanks to being caught up on a backlog of podcasts and thus being on the hunt for audiobooks!


First up was The Friend, the next Read With Us selection. There was a wait for the digital book at my library but not for the audio, so I went that route. This is a short novel (only about 6 hours on audio) about a woman whose longtime friend and mentor has just died by suicide and whose Great Dane she ends up inheriting, despite living in a New York City apartment where dogs are forbidden. The dog's presence inspires her to reminisce on their friendship and reflect on her grief as well as how the dog might (or might not) be processing the absence of its owner. I think that perhaps audio might not have been the best format for me to read this book because I kept getting lost and a little confused, and that definitely contributed to my feelings about the book in general. I'll be watching the movie made from it (the first time we've done this for RWU!), and perhaps that will help to make things a bit clearer for me. I gave it 3 stars.

Next up was Sandwich, a book I know quite a lot of you read when it came out last year and that I'd been meaning to read, and I was reminded of this fact when Bonny mentioned the author's forthcoming follow-up. This was another short book (less than 6 hours) that I ended up listening to in its entirety over the course of one day between my run, walks with Ruthie, and doing some house cleaning. The title is a reference to that stage of life when adults have to worry both about their children and their parents, though I think it's also clever as it could be the setting for the town on Cape Cod where the main character's family vacations for a week every year. Rocky is about 10 years older than I am, but I felt that I understood a lot of her struggles -- the worry about her kids, the worry about her parents, the havoc caused by menopause hormones (perimenopause, in my case), and the nostalgia for the seemingly simpler times when the kids were young and life seemed less complicated. I think this book also appealed to me because we used to vacation at the Cape when I was tween/teen, and when I was younger than that, we'd go to the New Jersey shore, so the descriptions of packing up lunches, schlepping all the stuff to the beach, and having sand get positively everywhere felt so very familiar. I gave it 4 stars.

Up next was a selection from my library holds, Ali Smith's Gliff. This is apparently meant to be a retelling or reimagining of Brave New World, which I have never read (so I cannot comment on that aspect). All I can really say is that, like other Smith novels I've read, I didn't fully understand what was going on but nevertheless enjoyed it. I've learned that I really just need to go along for the ride and not worry about the details, because they're rarely forthcoming. The best sense of the plot I got is that this is set in the near future, when technology has taken over nearly every aspect of life and has led to a surveillance state in which certain people are considered undesirable and are forced from their homes, the notice of which is a red line literally being painted around them. That is what has happened to the two siblings at the center of this story when their mother has gone to help out their ill aunt, leaving them with her partner. But when they are evicted, the partner goes to retrieve the mother and leaves the two children on their own. There's a horse involved and attempted evasion from the authorities, and later on one sibling (having lost track of the other) is looking back on this time in their life. I still feel a bit like I need someone to explain it to me, but I gave it 4 stars in spite of feeling rather clueless.

After finishing Sandwich, I thought I should listen to Catherine Newman's first book, We All Want Impossible Things. Though the characters and circumstances are completely different, many things felt similar, so it's clear to me that Newman is drawing a lot from her own life and experiences. This is a largely sad novel, about two friends since childhood, one of whom is dying of ovarian cancer. Ash and Edi have known each other for nearly all their lives, and now Edi is spending her last days in a hospice in Ash's hometown. As she grapples with the impending loss of her best friend, Ash is also struggling with her marriage and recent separation and concerns about her daughters. It seems like this novel should be a tearjerker, and it is at parts, but it also made me laugh out loud several times. I was left with the message that it shouldn't take the death of a loved one to make us appreciate the people in our lives we most care about. I gave it 4 stars.

What are you making and reading this week?

Monday, August 11, 2025

August Weekending

Happy Monday, friends! I hope you had a good weekend. Ours was hot but good. As they have done for the past couple of years, some of our Chicago cousins stopped by to stay with us overnight on their way home from vacation in North Carolina. It had been more than a year since we last saw them (when we went to Chicago for another cousin's bat mitzvah), so they hadn't before met my niece or Ruthie. It was all a bit chaotic Friday night and Saturday morning, but it was a good time. And my cousin's two daughters are growing up very quickly. The two of them had a sleepover in Molly's room -- the oldest is only 12 but already pretty much as tall as Molly!

We had everyone -- the cousins, my parents, and my brother and his family -- over to our house for breakfast on Saturday morning before the cousins left for the final leg of the trip home. Leo even came over to play with Ruthie!

It's still amazing to me how similar they look -- that same white stripe down the middle and a pink spot by their nose.

I mentioned that it's been hot; after a week where the humidity dropped significantly and temperatures were more bearable, our highs are climbing again this week, but the big thing is that we haven't had measurable rain since July. There were a few sprinkles on Friday morning, but that's done nothing for how dry everything is. I've been trying to water the plants, but the grass is pretty crispy. The tomatoes don't seem to be bothered by the heat, though -- look at what I picked on Friday!

That tiny zucchini was only picked because the plant it was attached to was dying, and I ended up tossing it in the compost anyway because there was a bug burrowing into it. The tomatoes look great, though. I can't get over how the one plant has grown. I've managed to harvest about four cherry tomatoes, but that plant has been dwarfed by the full-size plant. I've got some fresh mozzarella in the fridge for caprese salads for these.

I'm hoping for an uneventful week ahead. I finished up a big work project Friday afternoon, so I'm hoping things will be calm in that arena. Molly has three work shifts this week, and the Mister has a brief work trip, so Ruthie and I will be on our own for much of the week. I hope to have a real knitting update on Wednesday (and for sure I'll have a reading update). In the meantime, please enjoy this short video of Ruthie enjoying her first taste of watermelon!



Friday, August 08, 2025

Feel Good Friday

I don't know about you, but these past several weeks, I've really looked forward to Friday because of Kym's Sanctuary posts. She always has such a fun mix of something interesting, something beautiful, and something funny. But Kym is taking a well-deserved break to have a visit with her sister this week, and because I've been busy with actual work this week and don't have a lot of usual content to share, I thought I would take a page from her book and share some things that I hope will lift your spirits a bit. I'm a bit crunched for time, so this post won't be anywhere close to Kym's level of perfection, but if I can make you smile or chuckle, I'll be happy.

First, if you're a fan of dogs and you aren't following WeRateDogs on whatever social media channel you use, you're missing out. Truly, their posts are some of the best parts of my day. This post from the other day made me laugh out loud:


Next, are you familiar with red pandas? Molly was a little obsessed with them for a while, especially when we started watching videos of them trying to look tough when facing a very threatening ... rock.


Finally, if you want to see some beautiful photography, I'll direct you to the site of my favorite local photographer. He does a lot of shots of Pittsburgh, which might or might not interest you, but he also takes gorgeous photos of nature and landscapes. Here are a few examples:




If you like these, I'd encourage you to check out his galleries (and I won't be offended in the least if you don't feel a need to browse the Pittsburgh photos!).

Have a good weekend, remember there is beauty out there to be seen, and do your best to have a good laugh.